“I’m thriving at Buddleia House”. Meet Sheila.

Moving to Buddleia House gave Sheila a new lease on life. Here, residents are encouraged to remain active and involved in their community, which has brought Sheila a renewed sense of purpose and is even encouraging her to send artwork to the Tate! This is Sheila’s story…

“I moved into Buddleia House on 14th November 2023 after deciding I needed a bit more help in my personal life. Originally from Essex, I chose to make Buddleia House my home because of its outstanding reputation across Nottinghamshire for promoting independence and a Montessori way of life. 

“I have two wonderful children—my son, Daniel, who also lives in Nottingham, and my daughter, Lucy, who lives in France with her husband and children. Throughout my life, I have always been the main caregiver for my family. Caring for others has kept me constantly busy and fulfilled. Even though my family are now grown up, that desire to be useful and stay active remains strong within me.

“Buddleia House has been the perfect place for me to channel this energy. With its strong emphasis on fostering independence, I’ve found countless opportunities to stay busy and contribute to the little community we have. I spend my days helping around the home—whether it’s laundry, hoovering, sweeping, baking, cooking, participating in quizzes, or joining book clubs. I also take pride in assisting the staff and ensuring everything is running smoothly. In fact, they’ve welcomed my enthusiasm so much that they’ve even ordered me a uniform to join the well-being team! 

“This sense of being needed and having a role to play has greatly improved my independence and overall well-being.”

“One of my main interests is art. I am an artist, and I’ve previously submitted my work to the Tate Modern art gallery, hoping that one day my pieces might be displayed there. With the support of Louise, one of the wonderful staff members, I am exploring this passion once again. We’re currently working together to select a new design or theme for another submission. Being able to continue my artistic journey here is incredibly fulfilling, and I’ve made some amazing friends who share my love of creativity.

“I’m so glad I chose Buddleia House. Their approach to independent living and encouraging meaningful activities aligns perfectly with my own values and has made me feel right at home. I’m grateful for the freedom to contribute in ways that feel special to me and for the encouragement to pursue my interests.

“Buddleia House has given me more than just a place to live; it has provided me with a renewed sense of purpose. I am so thankful to the staff and my new friends for making this a place where I can truly thrive.”

For more information about Buddleia House and how they can help your loved one, contact 0115 968 0900 or email the friendly team at buddleiahouse@milfordcare.co.uk.